Tuesday, September 19, 2006

The Battle: Men on the Front Lines

In war battles have to be fought! There is no option if victory is prized and envisioned. To refuse the “price of battle” is to surrender your destiny to the will of an enemy. The consequences are tragic!

Too many men in the church (including some pastors, sad to say) are like the dim witted boxer who still can’t comprehend at the end of the fourth round why that other guy keeps hitting him. These men aren’t even aware they’re in a battle.

When a man becomes a follower of Jesus Christ, he steps into the ring against demonic opposition. A faithful man’s only real choice is to fight. The other options are repugnant to a champion disciple – to be disqualified, to cover up and stall, or to be knocked out!

11 It was he who gave some to be apostles, some to be prophets, some to be evangelists, and some to be pastors and teachers, 12 to prepare God's people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up 13 until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. Ephesians 4:11-13


The first step to enter significant combat is to put yourself under a leader who intends to lead his command into battle. John Paul Jones, Revolutionary Navy hero, put it best. “He who sails with me had best sail fast, as I intend to put myself in harm’s way.” God has either called you to be a pastor or to follow a pastor. You have no other choice if you are to be faithful to Christ. You do have the choice of picking a pastor who “means business” about the Gospel.

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her… Ephesians 5:25


The second step, if you are married, is to determine that you will be what you ought to be to your wife. It’s never what your wife is to you, but what you are to her that is the mark of Godly manhood.

The greatest battle in marriage is to choose to change into the character of Jesus no matter what your mate does. If the man will pay the price to turn loose the Spirit of Christ through his life on any person or situation, then God’s Word guarantees that eventually positive change will come, one way or another!

The death of a relationship is in the arrogant refusal to change unless the other person changes first. A real man is always the first to change, to make a “Christ adjustment” regardless of what others do. “We love Him because He first loved us!” (1 John 4:19)

(The third and final step for men in The Battle will continue in our next post.)

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